I’m a regular reader of author John Scalzi’s blog, the Whatever.
Today, he reposted his advice on weddings/marriage originally posted on the occasion of same-sex marriages in Massachusetts, updated now on the occasion of same-sex marriages in California.
It’s a truly lovely post, with excellent advice for *anyone* who is getting married. I especially liked this bit:
Try to remember as much as you can. Don’t worry if you don’t; what you absolutely will remember is how it feels to be with those who love you, who are pouring their love and happiness over you. Weddings are testimony to your clan of family and friends. You put them on to give them a chance to share your joy. They come to them to remind you that they already do.
Do go read the entire post, though. I promise it’ll be worth your time!